i really don’t like stans claiming Kylo MUST be mentally ill. Don’t get me wrong, there are several characters (either heroes or villains or anything in between) across all media who you can argue have some sort of mental illness, but Kylo fans seem to be the only ones insisting it’s canon and that we should stop being mean to him because of their headcanons? Even if he did have a confirmed mental illness, that wouldn’t and shouldn’t excuse the horrible things he did in his free will.

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Headcanon ≠ Canon.

As of this date, Kyle has NOT been confirmed to have any mental illness in canon. It is purely headcanon. And it is FINE to headcanon that!

The problem comes when you force that headcanon down the throats of everyone else. Because not everyone will like the headcanon, or maybe they don’t understand it. And that’s ALSO fine! NO ONE should be forced to conform with any headcanon.

In addition, being mentally ill DOES NOT excuse you or your sh!tty actions. Do we excuse serial killers because they are mentally ill? Of course not. Mental illness provides a REASON for a certain behavior, but not an EXCUSE.

There are, of course, exceptions to this. This can be evident in modern criminal justice systems.

For example, in the USA, when faced with criminal charges, there is the Insanity Defense. I linked the Wikipedia article here, but the short definition, per FindLaw, states:

“A criminal defendant who is found to have been legally insane when he or
she committed a crime may be found not guilty by reason of insanity. In
some cases, the defendant may be found guilty but sentenced to a less
severe punishment due to a mental impairment.
In states that allow the
insanity defense, defendants must prove to the court that they did not
understand what they were doing
; failed to know right from wrong; acted
on an uncontrollable impulse
or some variety of these factors”.

There are several things to unpack here.

First, note that this defense does not always work. In fact, the success rate of the Insanity Defense in the USA, per the Wikipedia article I linked above, is only 26%.

Second, a person may be found guilty, but due to their mental illness, will be sentenced to a less severe punishment. The Court recognizes the mental illness, but still finds YOU responsible. In this case, mental illness may be the reason for the act, but NOT the excuse.

And finally, the conditions under which the Insanity Defense is found acceptable are limited. As stated above, the defendant MUST show one or more of three conditions: 1) inability to understand what they were doing, 2) cannot tell right from wrong, and/or 3) uncontrollable impulse.

From THIS DEFINITION ALONE, Kyle fits NONE of these conditions. He CLEARLY knows right from wrong (the light vs. the dark side). He CLEARLY understands what he is doing (he knew he was killing Han, he knew he would have killed Leia, he knew he was going to kill Luke, etc.). And he CLEARLY has the ability to CONTROL his actions (this is especially evident when he kills S/noke). Therefore, in a USA court of law, Kyle would not be able to successfully use the Insanity Defense.

thank you

spaceamazon:

wickedmetalviking:

antikylo-antibullshit:

reyloisnasty:

dankobah:

kylo ren literally has BPD and everyone who calls him a crybaby is actually the worst person for it?  

having bpd doesn’t turn you into a mass murderer but go off i guess….

And us hating someone that you headcanon as being mentally ill doesn’t say anything about us lol. The only thing he “literally” is is a fictional representation of neonazism so…

lol, nope OP: kylo ren isn’t “mentally ill”, he’s not deep, he’s nothing more than a whiny emo bitch, a crybaby (you know, just like illidan stormrage, garrosh hellscream, and MCU loki)

Gotta say, your ability to read and understand the depth and complexity of characters is outstanding. Oh, also, maybe you should check out that masculinity. It’s getting toxic.

lol, “check that masculinity, it’s getting toxic”

if you can’t respond to my point with anything other than knee-jerk emotional reactions, that proves your emotional and intellectual immaturity.

what “depth”? kylo ren killed his father to prove that he was evil! Ares from the Wonder Woman movie had more depth than him! you know, like how illidan killed the naaru Xe’ra who got us, the heroes of Azeroth, to save and resurrect him, just because “wah, i am my scars.” or how garrosh, like you, got triggered every time someone mentioned his father and became the worst thing to happen to the Horde since Gul’dan! or how MCU loki killed his biological father…to make his adopted father proud…whom he still hated because “wah, he likes Thor better than me!”

go back to your safe space, anita: i don’t subscribe to your bs and i just might shatter your fragile female ego with the cold, hard truth

antikylo-antibullshit:

reyloisnasty:

dankobah:

kylo ren literally has BPD and everyone who calls him a crybaby is actually the worst person for it?  

having bpd doesn’t turn you into a mass murderer but go off i guess….

And us hating someone that you headcanon as being mentally ill doesn’t say anything about us lol. The only thing he “literally” is is a fictional representation of neonazism so…

lol, nope OP: kylo ren isn’t “mentally ill”, he’s not deep, he’s nothing more than a whiny emo bitch, a crybaby (you know, just like illidan stormrage, garrosh hellscream, and MCU loki)

thelastjedicritical:

I saw a post that made me think … it was about how a woman wrote a screenplay where a group of girls kills a guy who abused and raped one of them. All of the other women in her writing class thought he deserved what he got and hated him. The men didn’t hate him enough and the professor even suggested – in all seriousness – that she should make the guy also kick a dog.

Now this reminded me of the Star Wars fandom and Kylo Ren. I loathe this guy. And three of the main reasons why I hate him is what we saw him do to Rey, Finn and Poe. However this seems to constantly be forgotten and denied and excused by the fandom. Now I wonder … if he had done this to a dog instead of a white woman and a black man and a Latino man… would people actually perceive this as truly bad, while they try to find excuses for his actions now?

And did RJ relate so much to Kylo Ren and saw him as not quite that bad bc he did this to people RJ himself can’t relate to??

in the media recently, any villain who isn’t depicted as overly sympathetic is considered “bland”, “one-dimensional”, “uninteresting” and “boring.”

with that in mind, when Jar Jar Abrams and Darth Kath heavily politicized Star Wars, to the point where the First Order are so heavily coded as the national socialist german workers party (which is funny considering how many scenes we have of women and black men among the FO: THE FIRST ORDER!), anything that was part of them was considered thoroughly evil.

now i don’t like kylo ren because he’s a whiny emo you-know-what, emotionally unstable, and a giant man-child. i don’t empathize with him, no matter how much Rian Johnson thought he was the “superior” villain to Smeagol and sacrificed him to build up emo ren. but i will say this: i feel that a lot of people hating on him are doing so because they’re conflicted. when the writer and director are throwing political messages left, right, and center, while at the same time over-fellatiating the sympathetic, misunderstood villain trope by having a handsome actor play the emo villain AND have him have some attraction to the protagonist (who strangely enough reciprocates his feelings in some messed up way, despite having no reason to as stated IN THE FILM ITSELF!), it creates a hot mess in general

deliamelodyofficial:

goldaquarius:

thesunsword:

jehovahhthickness:

jessnesquik:

jehovahhthickness:

Stop dating abusive women 2018

Hardly any women are gonna reblog this tbh 🙃

A lot of women behave like this and think this ain’t abuse

But let a nigga slap them, damage their clothes and pour a drink on them, all hell will break loose.

EVERYONE CAN BE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC ABUSE!

Buddy has the soul of an angel and composure out of this world

Just in case anyone wants the context: He has been making music in Chicago, he recently performed to a large audience and met London on da track, who offered him an opportunity in LA. She didn’t want to leave Chicago because of her business there. He told her that she doesn’t have to go, he just needs to do this for his music. She got upset because he straight up told her that he valued his career over their relationship and she did this. 

Now I’m not a relationship expert, but I will never understand how some of y’all expect people to put you above the shit they have to do. Always put your career, your job, your livelihood first. This was all kinds of fucked up, really fucking abusive and manipulative, he should definitely go to LA with or without her. 

Many women *WILL* reblog this, because part of feminism is acknowledging that women are just as capable of being abusive as men. Acting as though women cannot be abusive is misogyny, and relies on the misogynist tropes that women are frail, and innocent in comparison to men. Any true feminist must acknowledge that neither of these things are necessarily true and that a woman is in fact capable of being abusive whether it’s to another woman, a man, or a nonbinary person.

The reason we focus on abuse from men towards women is that it is more prevalent, and institutionally encouraged, justified, and allowed without consequence, while a woman even “talking back” to a man is to be “put in her place.”

Don’t bring your weak, fragile “Few women will reblog this” shit up in here. We know what abuse looks like when we see it.

And here comes the feminist once again to make this problem of women abusing men all about women and blaming it on, you guessed it, men