Like. Do I need to fill out a form? Submit a resumé? Or what?
I’ve asked tumblr before, and I think the answer is food
if there’s a girl you like, SAY SOMETHING TO HER.
A lot of girls wait for the man to pursue. Not all (*raises hand*), but a lot do.mostly I just get anxiety if anyone takes any interest in me
Step 1. See girl
Step 2. Make her friendComplete, girl friend
seriously tho just be sweet and ask us out and chances are we’ll accept happily or, if we don’t feel the same, kindly turn it down and keep loving you as a friend
That sounds fake, but okay.
What if you’re ugly
That’s quite an obstacle in and of itself
Does confidence, like, mask ugliness? Do I need to start using this confidence thing?
Honestly, a lot of girls don’t actually care about physical appearance. As much as it seems, we’d most likely be interested in a guy who has a kind heart and shows it. Maybe that’s just me, but I know emotionally positive men tend to find the right girls, regardless of what they look like, and vice versa.
Like has been mentioned above, taking the first initiative is something a lot of girls look for in a guy. I know that’s personally how I am. Many girls will be uncomfortable to ask a guy to hang out or express interest directly first.
@christianmetalhead2112, I’m sure you are being unnecessarily hard on yourself! I’m not sure what the ideal look you wish you had was, but you don’t need to look a particular way for the right person to care about you. You were made in God’s image and He doesn’t make mistakes.
That being said, looks aren’t everything. If a person’s heart isn’t pretty, then all the good looks go flying out the window. Because really, what point is there is there if the person is physically attractive but the heart doesn’t match it? Many times you hear people say they fall for and end up marrying people who really don’t have many or any of the physical traits they initially expected their future partner to have. When someone has a genuinely kind heart, for many, that tends to be what matters most. It’s really not a cliche or just something people say that sounds nice. So just be yourself! It’s good to have confidence, but also don’t feel like you have to be someone else. In His timing, the right person will come who will appreciate you for who you are. 🙂
Haha! This is all a steaming pile of crap! I’ve tried those, and all i get was rejection, even had some people creeped out and terrified of my attempts. If i try to initiate something, they instantly and without exception get prickly, defensive, and uncomfortable. So don’t you give me this crap, because it’s simply not true. The women i’ve been around fear and/or hate men, and the ones who don’t merely don’t like me. It can’t all be their fault, right? I mean, i’m pretty ugly-looking. And don’t come here with this “women don’t care about physical attractiveness” because that’s a straight-up lie! Women only care about two things when it comes to men: how they look and how much money they have.
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